A 7 of spades relationship can lead people to finding where they belong and amongst people they belong to as a family. This relationship forces individuals to face their deepest fears, especially about being alone, and can bring lots of stress on a mental level. Once a person gets over their internal fears, this relationship can actually be a dream come true. The woman in the relationship can be very intelligent while the man may be great with finding different sources of money or work – or “industrious”. The man may be dishonest and at times secretive about his activities, difficult to trust. These two can be fated to have a relationship that evolves into a friendship or partnership – perhaps sharing in something profitable like real estate.
This couple will experience alot of nostalgia and will love talking about their deepest and darkest experiences in life. This relationship may awaken a spiritual shadow side that they didn’t know existed. The lesson that both parties are learning is how to compromise and achieve balance in their life. Both people may have been a bit stubborn or one sided in their views of things. This relationship is designed to force them to open up – so that they don’t miss out on the opportunity to meet others they are destined to meet.
This connection can bring mishaps, accidents, arguments, and negativity – especially when one is overworked or stressed out. The key to the success of this relationship is overcoming the person mental challenges that came INTO the relationship. Both people came with fears, stress, and indecision. This is a relationship can benefit from counseling, therapy, or mediation of some sort – to bring in a different perspective. Both individuals are very intuitive so lies will be highly disruptive.
Traveling (especially abroad) is the perfect avenue for healing any ills that have disrupted this relationship. However, this is a combination that will always at one point or the next suffer from doubts and even unexpected breakups. These breakups can be overcome, and when they are the couple will come back as a stronger unit – and have a greater basis on friendship over anything else. This is a combination that has a great likelihood of lasting for a long time.
This is a good relationship for the following types of people:
- Spiritual people
- Intellectual people
- Ministers, or Clergy
The keys to the success of this relationship is:
- Building a solid source of community –or communal activities.
- Creating structure for day to day living
- Learning how to communicate (without emotion)
- Building a positive and spiritual environment
- Not overworking and taking on too much work
- Working to achieve balance in everything
This combination card has a great possibility for marriage