A Jack of diamonds relationship will refine 2 people and ultimately will make the individuals involved highly evolved and balanced people. This relationship will push the two through the doorway to success and elevate these individuals especially in their career. This is a relationship that can develop leadership and problem-solving skills. Very early in the relationship this couple will feel as though they are family or they may meet each other through family members. Both may desire to settle down and having a secure foundation will be very important to them.
The woman would desire security and structure, while the man might prefer a friendship and a close work partnership (or sexual relationship). The man may be very stubborn as to how he wants things to be, and also controlling. This relationship can get real dangerous when emotions get out of whack (especially near the full moon), moon cycles will often bring confusion and the desire to explore your options. Indecision on where to live may also be present, the couple may choose to have their own place. There could also be indecision whether or not to have children (one party may want children, the other may not) but this is often a relationship that arises between two people who already have children. This combination can bring forth twins, but the family life will likely be a very non-traditional structure (like a blended family). This relationship is one that brings forth looks into non-traditional structures in relationships. There can be gender role reversal where the woman is the breadwinner or makes more money. This relationship can have various kinds of sexual involvements and may get bored with routine. There will be a fantasy approach to marriage, both people may think their ideal marriage would have to be a certain way, but later find out more clarity as to what they REALLY want their marriage to be (if even at all). There is also a tendency to make promises or oaths that are impossible to uphold or keep.
This type of relationship is often seen in same sex couples, or may have an element of same sex relations involved. For instance, the woman may desire to be with other women (periodically) and perhaps even secretly, the man may have close buddies or belong to fraternal organizations or groups. The family life of both can also be quite interruptive, erratic, and problematic. This relationship brings about a desire to discover one’s roots or where one truly belongs. This couple can be very popular and well-loved abroad. Living abroad however can bring the propensity for extra marital or third-party affairs. They could thrive financially by being close to their family homeland.
This is a good relationship for the following types of people:
- Same-sex couples
- Non-traditional people
- Blended families
- Older couples
- Someone who spends alot of time in the public eye
The keys to the success of this relationship is:
- Keeping things fun and light
- Being sociable
- Building and keeping a solid foundation (especially financially)
- Not succumbing to public or outside criticism
- Learning to compromise
- Honest expression
- Avoid being too political
- Be open to experimentation while being unattached to the outcome
There is a possibility for marriage if the following conditions are met:
- Both parties can overcome their fear of failure
- Overseas travel (can help)
- Working with a relationship therapist or coach